How to catch him cheating?
Friday, July 30th, 2010 at
3:26 am
I have seen on tv the ways you can find out if your spouse is cheating, some by getting into there email, phone records, or viewing everything they do online……
I dont suspect anything outside of emails, he sits infront of his computer at extended times, but when he signs off he rechecks it like 3 times, im curious to know what he has going on in there, its been months i been waiting for him to slip and leave it logged on but nothing,
anyone know how or what i can do to find out if he is talking to other females through emails?
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Why waste your money and time finding out. Go with your gut feeling, thats always the best tool.
check his texts
If you ever even suspect that a guy is cheating, he isn’t worth your time. No guy should ever give you any doubts about it, EVER.
Why waste your time trying to catch him. Ask him.
If you don’t go out and get the book, HOW TO PLAY THE GAME, NOT THE FOOL. This book has every scenerio you can think of when it comes to cheating and how to bust them. Guys aren’t the only smart ones. We can play too..
If there is a trust factor, you may as well end the relationship now. A relationship even with a little bi of distrust, can not happen. You will always have the question.
Ask him to get something for you, say from the kitchen. Then quickly look at the headers of his emails. If you see anything suspicious – ask him.
He should leave you. That is one mistake people make. You don’t go through their things, even if you do think they are cheating.
People need privacy, and you constantly trying to go through his things, gives him none.
Also, you know if you catch him cheating by reading his emails, it’s just going to backfire. He’s going to be mad you’re going through his things.
make a fake email or a fake profile and message him and see if he talks to the fake profile or the messages the fake e-mail you made. ASK him questions like do you have a girlfriend and see if he answers them truthfully
Hi,
Well, one thing could be that he is viewing porno. But you never know. If he is talking to other females, try to catch him in the act, like coming in the room when he is on the computer, asking him what hes doing.
I hope this helps,
Elsie
this isnt really the right thing to do but if u are desperate to log into his email (such as Hotmail etc) then you can access it from any computer (e.g. your work computer or something).
Most online email have a security question in the event of u losing your password. if u know him well enough you should be able to reset his password and gain access to his emails.
it would be better to speak to him about it and check his emails over his shoulder when you walk past. hacking his email account has serious consequences on your relationship if you get caught.
the link below has some other techniques for tracking your partner’s movements
http://www.videojug.com/tag/infidelity
Get this – SECTOR PRO
http://www.netbus.org/computer-tracking-software.html
It takes pictures anonymously without the person knowing that it does.
The pictures are saved in a special folder that only the person with the user name and password can enter.
My mom got this.
It takes pictures, records what internet sites he visited, and if he is in a secure place then it doesn’t matter because the computer takes pics of it every second.
It is easy to use and set up!
The best way, was already said. Create a fake profile or fake email on sites you know he looks at. Try to contact him, ask him questions you want the answers to. Ask do you have a girlfriend? what do you do in your free time, etc.
Rather than stoop to the levels that some people will, why don’t you just ask him what he is doing? I am amazed at people who are in relationships and there is such a lack of communication between them.
If he is cheating, confronting him will not work….I mean really will he tell you??? Go online and download a parental control program, about $20 or 30 bucks, and install it on the computer….it will be able to give you each and every key stroke including passwords and emails. It runs undetected and he will never know…..BUT if you find something out….you will want to discuss it, so you will need to be prepared to tell about the program or not….tell him he left it logged in…. Do a little research and pick the best program to check what you need…..it works.
You can ask him to show u something on his internet and then when he leaves go into his email.
Right after he gets off the Internet, open internet explorer go to tools, internet options, settings, view files…once in there go to the ‘last modified’ column…open up the most recent files…it will warn you…but I’ve done it a million times and never had issues. Sometimes the screens of e-mails are saved. Honestly though, you might want to ask him, or consider are there other things in your relationship that are causing you to ask this question.
Yes, he’s talking to other women on the internet. Don’t confront him because he’ll deny it. You can say that you are unhappy and that you want to attend marriage counseling together. If he doesn’t want to get into counseling, then you should go by yourself.
If you love him will all your heart then sit back and trust him.
well if you know him well enough, you can figure out his password. just keep on trying. check his phone records. you can obtain a copy online at the website; if hes registered. run his phone and text messages; voicemail too.
This is the easiest way to find out as soon as he gets off the computer check your Internet history, go to the toolbar were you see the back, and the favorite button, you should see a clock-looking icon, click it this will give you a list of websites that were used up to three days prior of the day you do this, check the sites out, if when you do this no sites show up he deleted the history and he is hiding something.
Best of Luck
if he is cheating you deserve better
open a web page and hit "ctrl H"
you should get a history of what he has been doing
warning: what you dont know will not hurt you.
how far are you willing to go to break your own heart?
I know my b/f’s email paswd but only b/c he wrote it down 1 time & wasnt around when i found it. did you try guessing it? b-days? addresses? dog/best friend/parents names?dont forget to try names & numbers. but what if he is talking to some1 else & u confront him? he’s just gonna change the pswd.
Why don’t you ask him?i don’t think that he was cheating on you…
I think you have a more serious problem than whether or not he’s talking to other females; you have trust issues. Instead of trying to find out about cyber-hoes, how about sit down with your husband and ask him if he is and tell him how you feel about the amount of time he’s spending on the computer when he should be spending that time with you.
If he rechecks if he signed out 3 times, it means he’s hiding something for sure, maybe cheating maybe just something he doesn’t want you to know, or else what is he afraid of?
If he’s giving you reasons to suspect that he’s cheating, he’s cheating for sure.
Check any changes in his behavior.
Go through his cell phone.
When he’s online, come in behind him suddenly and see his reaction and what he’s doing.
Use hacker’s softwares like password cracker or anything and get his password. (It’s too invasive though).
Last resort is ask him.
Tell him that it is concerning you and you have no reason to doubt him, but just to ease your mind, show you the emails. If he doesn’t want to show you and throws a fit, then i think there is something up.
Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year now, and we both have each others passwords. If he doesn’t have anything to hide, then he shouldn’t have any problems showing you.